MOVING IN TOGETHER
They say that moving in together is one of the greatest tests a relationship can go through. And it’s 100% true, you don’t really know your partner until you’ve lived together and experienced all their annoying habits firsthand.
TRAVELLING TOGETHER
Going on vacation together is a vital step before walking down the aisle. No matter how long we spend planning our vacations, something always goes wrong, so if you can get through vacation drama, then you are made for each other.
SETTING GOALS TOGETHER
The five year plan may seem a little daunting, but if you really see yourself with your partner in the long run, it’s essential for you to understand what they want out of life and where they see themselves.
TALKING FINANCES
No one likes to talk about their finances, but before envisaging getting married and living happily ever after, you need to talk about mortgages and all those kind of fun things!
ARGUING…A LITTLE
Arguing is never fun, although the way you deal with an argument speaks volumes about your relationship. A little argument never hurt anybody and it’s a great way to really get to know your partner.
GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER’S FAMILIES
Even if the thought of getting to know your future mother-in-law scares you, having a good relationship with your partner’s family is essential before getting married.
GETTING A PET TOGETHER
Getting a pet together is a real test of love and commitment to any relationship. Seeing your partner wake up early on a Sunday morning to walk the dog will give you a real sense of reassurance that they are committed to you.
DREAM HOME
Finding the perfect house and heading down to IKEA to decorate it is an essential step in any relationship and a definite must-have experience. It will also give you a great little project to manage.
FUTURE EXPECTATIONS DISCUSSION
‘Where do you see yourself living?’ ‘How do you envisage raising your future kids?’ These kinds of deep discussions are essential to have before putting a ring on it.
SITTING DOWN TOGETHER AND MAKING COMPROMISES
Compromise is a scary word, but without making compromises in a relationship, your love and connection won’t be able to progress and you’ll end up resenting each other.
