Unsurprisingly men find it easier to reach orgasm than women. In fact 91% of men reach the big-O while having sex compared to just 64% of women, according to the National Survey of Sex and Behaviour.
Interestingly, men said that their female partners reached climax 85% of the time, which can mean only one thing – they’re faking it.
But how can you guarantee she reaches the big-O?
There are several ways you can increase her chances of climax, here are the top three:
1. Keep it simple
You might think you have to do all kinds of imaginative things to get her off, but our recent study proves otherwise.
We asked our readers “which sex act do you orgasm from most”. The poll of 9,360 women revealed vaginal sex was the most common way to make her orgasm, with 36% of the vote.
Oral sex came in second with 26% saying they climaxed when receiving it. And 24% said they orgasmed through mutual masturbation.
Only 14% said the sex act they orgasmed from most was anal sex, despite another study saying this was the best way to increase her pleasure.
2. Let her take charge
It’s important to put the effort in when it’s needed, but you should also let her take charge sometimes.
This is particularly important because the sex position which garners the most orgasms is Girl On Top.
Other pleasurable positions include Spooning and Doggy Style, which has been voted Britain’s favourite sex position.
3. Don’t forgo foreplay
We recently conducted a survey asking simply “what makes someone good in bed?”
Possible answers included things like “stamina” and “penis size”, but there was one overriding winner – foreplay.
A whopping 36% of the 4,994 people you took part said foreplay was the most important factor when it came to sex.
This was closely followed by “make sure we both orgasm”, which ad 33% of the votes.
Comparatively, only 13% said having a big penis was the key to being a good lover.
