Playing the dating game can be tough and you can get lost trying to read all those mixed signals.
If you’re wondering whether the person you like likes you back, here are some surefire ways to know.
We spoke to psychologist Dr Becky Spelman, who works as a relationship expert for We-Vibe, to find out what kind of secret clues she’s giving you to show her interest.
There are a few vital signs you can pick up on if you pay close attention to her body language.
In an exclusive interview with Daily Star Online, Becky said: “When someone is attracted to you, they’ll find everything you say interesting and will find it difficult to look away.
“They will use ‘open’ body language, with expansive gestures and will tend to sit or stand in a way that brings them close to you.
“If they want to have sex with you (which they probably do, if they find you attractive), they will open their mouths slightly, without evening realising it and their pupils will dilate when they look at you.”
But what signs will she give off to show she’s turned off?
Becky said: “If someone is turned off, they will show it clearly by looking away when you talk to them and by using ‘closed’ body language such as folded arms or a posture that turns them away from you.”
Here the sexpert shared three ways you can boost your sex appeal:
1. Be the best version of you that you can be
Take care of your health, invest a little time and effort in your grooming, and be confident about yourself.
Confidence is a very attractive quality in and of itself.
2. Be prepared to listen
Women and men alike really appreciate it when someone seems to be interested in them.
Don’t just seem to be interested in someone you find attractive, though – if you genuinely listen to them, you will be able to engage with them completely.
3. Be open and honest
OK, don’t air all your dirty laundry early in the relationship, but be true to who you are.
Nobody likes someone who presents themselves in a false light.
