We are the continuation of the “enduring” generation. This is the way our grandmothers taught our mothers and our mothers taught us. But luckily we are the ones who managed to have a bit of freedom.
We are between the two stones. That is why it is easier to pretend weak, hide and deprive yourself of responsibility. The majority of the women in relations with men choose the position of the victim.
Each of us is able to hold a whole world in our fragile hands. It is really an art on one hand be nice, modest and on the other hold the wheel of our life.
1. The most important thing to remember is that prince on white horse is made up. No one is obliged to make you happy and save from the fate’s surprises. After a while the man will just get tired of your complaints and whining.
2. Think of the worst scenario of the situation which bothers you currently and imagine what will be afterwards. After that play the tape backwards. One, two and you are not afraid of anything.
3. Never prove anything to anyone. It will not do any good.
4. For building harmonious relationship with anyone you should first find harmony in you and love yourself.
5. Learn dreaming, put high goals and follow them. You should enjoy not the result but the process as well. If you manage to find and develop this energy in you, you will not need any other efforts everything will go smoothly on its own – dreams, career and love.
6. Smart man will highly value the woman who is striving forward making her dreams and goals come true.
7. The woman who is able to develop and combine in herself both female and male characters who is using everything for her self-realization becomes a unique woman. Such woman was Coco Chanel. Each woman can become so if she wants.
8. Man should not be our world, but a part of it.
9. Always learn, get new information. It is a guarantee, the base which will help you to survive during hard times.
10. While getting acquainted with a man you should manage to say something bright and then turn into a stupid girl. This transformation must be very sudden and diplomatic. Men are very fearful. They are always afraid of something. That is why it is necessary to become unpredictable and build relations easily and with humor.
11. Money is on the second place in reaching your goal. You need as much money as it is necessary for the realization of your ideas.
12. Do not be afraid of getting desperate. You may fall to the very bottom. You may feel terrible, you may feel being a loser and you may even like being unhappy. But at a certain time your body is tired of being in such situation and it says – life continues, I have not died, the sun shines. Everything is good. You get up and move forward.
13. Fate is like lion. If you are afraid it will attack if there is no fear it will go where you want.
